{"id":400,"date":"2026-08-24T21:30:00","date_gmt":"2026-08-24T21:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.katsimbris.org\/?p=400"},"modified":"2026-08-24T21:30:00","modified_gmt":"2026-08-24T21:30:00","slug":"when-they-say","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.katsimbris.org\/when-they-say\/","title":{"rendered":"When They Say&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dare I say that &#8220;understandably,&#8221; I have gotten very few matches through dating (apps). However, it is so few though that I do feel bad for women; who have consistently said that the online dating landscape is difficult and dangerous.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Ugh, I just had the thought that what if my profile, and hopefully <i>just<\/i>&nbsp;my profile, is so bad it makes people date other people that are not good for them. Ugh, like a black-mirror version plot of <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Good_Luck_Chuck\">Good Luck Chuck<\/a>.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dare I say that &#8220;understandably,&#8221; I have gotten very few matches through dating (apps). However, it is so few though that I do feel bad for women; who have consistently said that the online dating landscape is difficult and dangerous. Ugh, I just had the thought that what if my profile, and hopefully just&nbsp;my profile, &#8230; <a title=\"When They Say&#8230;\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/blog.katsimbris.org\/when-they-say\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about When They Say&#8230;\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-400","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.katsimbris.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/400","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.katsimbris.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.katsimbris.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.katsimbris.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.katsimbris.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=400"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog.katsimbris.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/400\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.katsimbris.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=400"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.katsimbris.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=400"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.katsimbris.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=400"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}