What I Do

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 In lieu of messing and bothering an ever shrinking number of friends – I figured, why not post here and NOT bother them. It’s genius, I tell ya! If anyone out there is reading and would love to share how they cheer themselves up with little fun videos. Here is my list since this last … Read more

What Do You Do?

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I always find it weird having a crush. I mean, I know these things happen – that it’s okay to like someone. Recently, I’ve come across someone that’s grabbed my attention. One of the early lessons I’ve learned, and I may have repeated countless times here is that my own feelings do not (and should … Read more

Freddie deBoer – Fat Acceptance : Ozempic :: Heteropessimism : The Right Guy

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  Fat Acceptance : Ozempic :: Heteropessimism : The Right Guy we’re only human FREDDIE DEBOER JUN 29, 2026 ∙ PAID The last few years have presented a brief, poignant window where you could watch an army of once-dedicated believers let their ideology slip loosely from their hands, in real time. A set of public-facing people … Read more

Tough

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I’ve been on dating apps again for three weeks now. I won’t lie, I think hope springs eternal. Despite knowing better about what I should expect – I really thought (hoped?) someone would like me. Oh well.

Good Show

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I went to a good show. A couple of sets at The Barbary this past Saturday (June 13) in Philly. I feel like I should have taken a picture not just to document that I was there, but to also liven up posts like this. Although, I will say that I don’t know what I … Read more

Relationship PTSD

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I was just listening to Hasan Piker go over the drama between Akaash Singh and his wife Jasleen, and I couldn’t help but feel like I was being triggered. Triggered, in the real sense of the word. I had to pause and take a break. As Patrick C, and Hasan’s commentary, went over Akaash and Jasleen’s relationship, … Read more

Hindsight and All That

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 I feel so dumb having not put this all together much sooner. In the episode of Community (“Origins of Vampire Mythology”), Jeff wants to find out why a Carnival worker (named Blade, someone portrayed as having average looks, and not much else going for them) has such a hold on Britta’s attention and attraction. In … Read more

Regret

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With tax season over, I think I might have a moment to begin blogging. It was rough, quite difficult. I f not for podcasts, I barely would have kept up with news. I did have a though I wanted to share. It was something I thought of when I was walking the dog (Mandi’s dog, … Read more

Who am I

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Since I’ve been going through this separation (and dare I say, maybe even before then), I will see either first-hand, or second -hand, accounts of people discussing relationships and relationship troubles. I’ll come across something like this: Lately, this guy lost his job, likely because of struggling with addiction, so now he stays at home … Read more

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I just wanted to make a quick note about how I don’t hear the topic of “Sigma Males” anymore. I had been thinking about how many people (women included) enjoy toxic masculinity. Or, are trained / indoctrinated to look for it and see it as a sign of strength.  Now, I’m not immune from this. I … Read more